The author argues that while AI enables rapid software development and instant gratification, the most valuable things - mature trees, trusted relationships, successful companies, and quality open source projects - require time, patience, and sustained commitment. They criticize the current obsession with speed and automation, noting that friction and waiting periods often serve important purposes. The author observes that despite time-saving tools, people actually have less time as any efficiency gains are immediately filled with more work, and warns that software built for quick experimentation often lacks the durability needed for long-term trust and relationships.